A 19-Year Study Reveals Kindergarten Students With These 2 skills - social and emotional competency are Twice as Likely to Obtain a College Degree (And They Have Nothing to Do With Reading) . How to Teach Kids Emotional and Social Skills . Here are a few simple strategies that can help your child begin to gain emotional competence:. . Label your child's feelings. Say things like "It looks like you're feeling sad today" or "I can tell you are mad right now." Eventually, your child will learn to verbalize his feelings on his own. . Validate your child's feelings. Resist the urge to say things like "Calm down—it's not a big deal." Instead, say, "I know you're really upset right now." Regardless of whether you think his emotional response is out of proportion to the situation, teach your child that it's OK to have big feelings. . Make empathy faces. Say, "Make a face that shows me how that boy felt when you hit him." When your child makes a sad or angry face, he'll actually experience that emotion for a moment. And he'll develop more empathy—which is a key ingredient in social success. . Let your child experience uncomfortable emotions. It's healthy to feel bored, angry, scared, or lonely sometimes. Teach healthy coping strategies to deal with discomfort, and coach your kids as they practice. With your support, they can learn that uncomfortable emotions are tolerable. . Correct the behavior, not the emotion. Make it clear that angry feelings are OK but aggressive behavior isn't. And teach your child that it's OK to feel sad but screaming at the top of her lungs in the grocery store isn't OK. Use discipline that teaches better ways to deal with emotions. . Like and share with your spouse http://on.inc.com/Bx1nZeB
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